The Ways of Wisdom, #2

We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.

- E. M. Forester

A Poem to Ponder!

The poem every Indian Man should read!

Kudos to you 'Unknown Poet', it rings an alarm!:P

The Ways of Wisdom, #1

I have found a kind of serenity, it seemed no longer important whether everyone loved me or not - more important now was for me to love them. Feeling that way turns your whole life around; living becomes the act of giving.

- BEVERLY HILLS, B.1929

Gateway of Myriad!

Probably you must be wondering what on earth I am blabbering about, but true enough I have identify the supremacy of one of our vital appendage on our body, in giving us an epigrammatic walk to our inner feelings. Yes, the eyes, the one and only gateway to our soul and inner monologues! Why eyes? Puzzled still? Now let give you a vivid picture of what I think as the ‘Ultimate Gateway to our Soul’; the eyes!

I have seen in many cases, where people avoid eye contact when they are making statements, for matter of sake, any kind of proclamations. Is it a way to escape from mendacious statements made? The truth is, eyes can’t be lying, and the untruthfulness of each remark made can be concluded by giving such a strong eye contact. According to a friend of mine, there is a simple method of knowing whether the person is making a false statement of trying to succumb you into a forgery statement made. He said when the person looks more to your left when he is in conversation with you, that gives a probability of 80% the comment is bogus! How far is the truth? Further investigation needed! Why don’t you try it out with a friend of yours!

So do eyes really hypnotises?

Apparently, I should agree on the statement above because in many occurrence, eyes can be very much intimidating. With oodles of impression can be made, this organ of ours considered to be ‘deadly’ as well. In fact, if you have seen the Indian Classical Dance, The Barathanatyam, there are plenty eye-expressions which can materialised each and every emotions, right from being happy, sad, angry, lustful and also even being suspicious. It’s indeed a vital ‘weapon’ a person need. And giving such eye contacts with expressions, the partial message needed to be transmitted would be understood by the other end who is receiving it. Start understanding the ‘messages’ from the eyes before you could read the body language!=)

Well for a start, look at your colleague’s eyes when they are in different moods. You could definitely see the deviation of the cornea-popping to the iris squinting vary proportionally to the feelings that they are in. Without a doubt, I strongly believe that the eyes are the first step to known the inner feelings. Beware of eyes!

The Cautious Ship!

A handsome and intelligent cameo meets appealing yet witty lass, and love sparks between them! They have had the most lasting relationship, and manage to get through every thick and thin of existence. And at the end they live happily ever after.

Wait! Why on earth this only happens in movies and foretold chronicles? Is there really a relationship as this good? Think twice!

I wish every relationship in this world ends with a wide smile and also a happy ending. But it’s hard to endure this sort of bond. Regardless of whatsoever affiliation you are committing to; from spouses, friends and any other rapport exist there will be much problems faced. It needs an extra caution to be taken in consideration to maintain a long lasting empathy.

Why it’s so difficult to sustain a good relationship?

Pretty much assumed earlier there will be myriads of factors involved in a bad-reputed-bond. For example, one may take relationship for granted; A friend who ignores their acquaintance just for other mere things, only to realise that they were busy collecting stones when they have a gem with them. I often come across some acquaintance that easily falls under the tapestry of this scenario. Probably, it’s time for reshuffling and re-evaluating which friend is indeed needed in life.

All this year I have learnt that relationship is almost similar to the ‘Touch N Go’ system. Those who appreciate you for who you are will stick with you longer than the ones that only take you for a ride. Why still people do fall for this so-called ensnare? Mind boggling!

It takes loads of understanding, fair amount of truthfulness, and a little fun, not forgetting also a dash of intuition for one to identify which relationship will be lasting and which is a one-stop-go-link. Don't get vignette with all those myopic ‘promises’ of the untruth. So let’s start appreciating those who really will be with you through the years and start maintaining a distance for those who you think not worth to be kept in the circle of trust and relationship. Start now before it too late!

As for me, it took lots of wrong turning before actually I am right on track. I had tidal wave hitting on and on, but I am certainly happy with those I have around me now! Thanking always the three-lettered-guy for all the guidance and giving me such wonderful acquaintances to escort me throughout my life.