A handsome and intelligent cameo meets appealing yet witty lass, and love sparks between them! They have had the most lasting relationship, and manage to get through every thick and thin of existence. And at the end they live happily ever after.
Wait! Why on earth this only happens in movies and foretold chronicles? Is there really a relationship as this good? Think twice!
I wish every relationship in this world ends with a wide smile and also a happy ending. But it’s hard to endure this sort of bond. Regardless of whatsoever affiliation you are committing to; from spouses, friends and any other rapport exist there will be much problems faced. It needs an extra caution to be taken in consideration to maintain a long lasting empathy.
Why it’s so difficult to sustain a good relationship?
Pretty much assumed earlier there will be myriads of factors involved in a bad-reputed-bond. For example, one may take relationship for granted; A friend who ignores their acquaintance just for other mere things, only to realise that they were busy collecting stones when they have a gem with them. I often come across some acquaintance that easily falls under the tapestry of this scenario. Probably, it’s time for reshuffling and re-evaluating which friend is indeed needed in life.
All this year I have learnt that relationship is almost similar to the ‘Touch N Go’ system. Those who appreciate you for who you are will stick with you longer than the ones that only take you for a ride. Why still people do fall for this so-called ensnare? Mind boggling!
It takes loads of understanding, fair amount of truthfulness, and a little fun, not forgetting also a dash of intuition for one to identify which relationship will be lasting and which is a one-stop-go-link. Don't get vignette with all those myopic ‘promises’ of the untruth. So let’s start appreciating those who really will be with you through the years and start maintaining a distance for those who you think not worth to be kept in the circle of trust and relationship. Start now before it too late!
As for me, it took lots of wrong turning before actually I am right on track. I had tidal wave hitting on and on, but I am certainly happy with those I have around me now! Thanking always the three-lettered-guy for all the guidance and giving me such wonderful acquaintances to escort me throughout my life.
7 comments:
Yup..those who appreciate you for who you are,n not wanting to change you...will last with you till m\the end! m learning that also...good post!
Easy said than done my dear. R/Ship is indeed a complicated word to be defined or understood. In the war between mind and heart, well, you know very well which attains victory. Sometimes, despite realizing the reality, our hearts secretly hope that these mere stones will be transformed into gems one day. This isn't a sign of weakness but just a fraction of the mytery called "love" which is the foundation of every realtionship.
Guhan: Thanks for the comment. Even i saw you wrote an entry on relationship. Very true, anyone for matter of sake, should as you the way you are! I am glad that you are learning it from now!
MJ Anni: Well said! i seriously agree on whatever you say. It's hope that makes things running. But lets pray that the hope doesnt get shattered! Again, your opinion is very much true and i appreciate for you to share it with me!:)
Very good post sanjay.. A ship called relationship is so unique and nobody can escape without travelling in this ship... most of the time, our happiness is indirectly controlled by this ship where at times many of us will try our very best to keep this under control so that we take charge of our own happiness and not controlled by another person...
But what is the secret of lasting relationship?! Is it good communication, good understanding or the person itself?? Or is it God's grace on certain people who lucky enough to have a life called "happily ever after"!
Whatever the secret can be, let the happiness of oneself controlled by them and not by another person.. because there's only one person will be there with us till the end, and that is our own soul! Take good care of it... And ya, this doesn't mean we have to be selfish.. that's totally different thing because selfish people will only think about themselves!
Thought i can just drop some comments on what i feel... hope its useful and do add more... adios
Hats off Nirmi!=)
relationship..is a ship of its own like nirmala had said earlier.
Firstly lets look at the ship of friends..friends..this words..aint juz words..its suppose to be the next thing after family.But is it our mistake or our friends mistake for not keeping the ship last long at sea.well it depends..tatz why we say,we have to be carefull when chossing a friend and extra cautious when keeping them with us.When time comes,people change nevertheless new friends are to be found.Life is to short for us to cry for people who hardy care for us.Secondly is love.My favourite of all ships.Rode n Sunk few times but it gives me more experince on new ships to come.Il say 1 word.Maturity is a virtue in a everlasting relationship.Being such a geek n godly wont do good but being matured in the sense of understanding the partner,trusting the partner is the base of all solid relationship.But nowdays ppl lack this.Affairs before and after marriage..and they blame 'Yo,its the modern world guys"..yeah my foot..its a tough topic though sanjay..i can talk abt it all day..writing abt it..il juz keep on going nowhere..
-thevin,the man who seen to much-
Indeed nicely said my buddy. Its and ongoing topic that doesnt end here just by writing it one entry. I am happy with the amount of good comments given corresponding to this topic. I agree on you that relationship is hard to maintain.But as long we take a good care of it, we can definately prevent it from sunking!=)
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