Monday, June 21, 2010

PDA still a Taboo??

It’s actually has been a fun thing for me to see how people react to their loved ones. Without noticing there are a lot of small acts that makes one laugh, angry and even go blunt. Every time I go to public places I never fail to get the aura of PDA from people around. Hugging in public, small peck on the cheek, kiss on the forehead and even holding hands in public while walking.



I was attracted to an incident recently happened when I was out with a bunch of my friends. A couple was there in the bunch of fun people. Making it sweet, they came with themed clothing and they look handsomely adorable. All the while, this both people were like guiding and giving eye contact from time to time to each other. She advices him at odd times and he being very protective towards her is a very normal scenario I enjoyed looking at.



But how many of us are actually comfortable in Public Display of Affection (PDA)?



PDA is a big NO in some people’s dictionary, but what I have observed and what I uphold, controlled PDA in life is essential.



But, why?



Deduced from my own research over the years, this PDA has actually made the bond tighter and this people have been more than ever loving each other. It’s an unspoken oath been taken again and again by two hearts which is trussed with love. Again, this PDA is not only for lovers but whoever you love ranging from family members and even friends.



As for me, I have always given a warm hug to most of my friend and acquaintances when I am actually bidding a farewell. I think this is a way that say, ‘don’t worry, all is well and take care’. All three concerns in just one act of embracing each other to make sure these concerns are transmitted unutterably. For some this might be an act of weirdness, but that’s for lame and vague people. Start appreciating people around you, and give them a hug whenever possible and you can see how a small act of PDA could change someone’s life!



p/s: I hail to UNITEN students, for having the ‘hugging-day’ that everyone goes around hugging each other to spread the love!=) I miss UNITEN campus life though!

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