Contemplating the Resolution!

It’s coming to year end now, and everyone is busy preparing for the countdown and also welcoming of the New Year! And in the midst of this particular process, I realise that almost all and sundry complaints on the resolution for the fresh year ahead. I see many of them cracking their head for the perfect resolution.

Why it’s so important?

I wonder and wonder. For not being so old fashioned, I used to follow the trend of ‘MUST’ have a resolution for the new year, but this year I am knocking some sense and forbid myself from having one dim-witted resolution that I know I won’t follow. I strongly think that this act of having a decree for the bright months ahead can be like a speed-breaker in life! Why a need for that when we can follow the flow of life? Take a chill pill and enjoy every bit of life the way it is.
I still grin and laugh at times looking at facebook status updates that relates to New Year resolution.

Will they follow what they say??

As the saying goes, practise what you preach, so for those who have talked the talk, make sure you walk the walk. As for me, I walk carefree and enjoy every bit of my time and space I have for myself!

Anyways, for those who had some spare time to read this entry, I wish you guys a blessed year ahead. Many more success will bestowed you by the Almighty! For those I know personally, I would take this opportunity to ask for forgiveness for the past year and I hope I hope histories are not repeated! God bless us all.

Sure or Not??

I was walking like one innocent kid in Little India of Perak, while enjoying looking at wonders of Textiles and admiring the gaudily dressed mannequins where all of a sudden a bunting caught my attention! First glance on this streamer, you won’t notice anything wrong with it.

Now look at it again!

So if you wanted to feel bright, go to this launderette since ‘they will launder you bright’!

*laughing out loud*

Regards

Do You Need an Answer??

Recollecting the past incident all of us go through, makes me wonder again and again on the possibilities of two souls meet by chance, become friends by destiny and clad hands together and walk down the years ecstatically. Indeed it’s an unexplainable phenomenon, but sometimes people just pause and gaze, thinking on the rough potential cause of the being.

The word ‘how’ seems to be hard to answer in this case. The best thing we could do is that just enjoys the moment and endures it without hassling on how it happened. Friendship is just another ship that you should sail with loads of care and handle it properly to avoid it from sinking.

When two souls become friends, it’s actually a step closer to be in the loop of trust and this TRUST is a vital component in determining the lasting of the relationship regardless of the type of relationship that you are in. From what I am going through, I never thought I could draw this far in life with the amount of good friends I have.

Shifting from a student’s life to working world was tough job to juggle, and I think with the amount of good souls I meet over at workplace I am happy to endure my working world. Thanks to Him for giving me good souls to accompany me in this phase of life. Undeniably everything happened unexplainably fine. I have already put some of them in the circle of trust and I hope I am not forgotten in the process of the other party discovering their verve.

Regards

Do you know….Who??

Busy days at SONY makes me a little caught with up with work loads where I seldom be at my workstation, instead I am a little dynamic, moving from suppliers and also warehouses! But this never stops me from my social activity after work. Especially with my newly profound good friends and work colleagues; Sutharshanan, Anil Vincent and my buddy Rajanen, indeed great companion after work, added with a ‘special appearance’ from my comical friend Mekala and also Shivani the witty girl.

Couple of days ago, me and the earlier mentioned great soul resorted for bowling game for de-stressing from work. After a great lunch, we manage to settle down for two games of bowling. After such a fun and outgoing session of ball rolling and pin shattering, we settled at a Chinese shop for supper. Being the fun people as always, we cracked into jokes and also jested about each other aimlessly, while this whole process I found myself at the midst of gawking at my friends asking the similar question to each other. Let me give a simple gesture of the scenario I was amused and laughing at.

Shivani to Anil, “Eh you should know Shalini since you studied in MMU?”. While staring pointlessly Anil answered “Oh, she is like a good friend of mine.” This followed by me coming in and asking another analogous question to Anil, “Then you should know Malarasi and Uthaya?”. This time onwards, Anil looks like the ‘walking-database’ of MMU since he nodded affirmatively.

Did you see the content of the speech could possibly be if two different people from different colleges become friend? It’s always the same question!

“DO YOU KNOW….??”

No matter how many times you try to avoid this sort of conversation, you will still end up with the same question regardless asking about your college friends or work colleagues. Even I myself, when I got to know Anil and Sutharshanan, I uttered the same, lame and vague question! Just observe it the next you talk to your friend, I am sure you will come across this exact question asked! Enjoy noticing the conversation and you will be amazed how life is astoundingly funny and fun!

Regards

p/s: I know Anil, Sutha, Raj, Meg and Shivani would curse me for putting their name here! Don’t mind me ok? Love you guys!

Less Time for Long Hours??

Sitting at office, gazing left and right with no proper vision ahead makes me wonder. And when I conjecture, I can smell loads of questions will be appearing in my head. Apparently I am attracted to write and entry about how an incident has really made me reflect about how it’s applicable in bona fide life. One vital question before I move further into blurt of the mind; How would you feel if your hard work is being tormented in front of your eyes?

Rhetorically, I know, almost similar answers will be uttered vividly. Of course we would feel very appalling and underappreciated. Let me give a real life situation of how a more than two hours hard work is being demolished in just less than 2 minutes. Me and a bunch of my colleague was actually helping out in the decoration for a birthday party which almost took us close to 3 hours to be done with the good output. At end of the day, it only took less than 2 minutes to bring it all down with the same amount of manpower. This is ironic example, where everyone know, we can’t let the whole decoration item to be on for the rest of the life!

But can you get the gist of the scenario spoken? No matter what you endure in life, it takes only fewer periods to bulldoze one’s hard work which was built for many years. The only way to safeguard the long kept reputation is by not making any mistakes. I still can recall my friend’s father told me at the end of the birthday party that I decorated. He said to me, “Sanjay, your long hour hard work is being tarnished in just few minutes!” I answered jokingly with a loud cry of disapproval.

A mere incident rang the alarm for me. I was riding bike earlier this morning when I evoked the incident and made me think, every incident in our life is quite inter-related. So what I learnt was, no matter how tough you have taken to reach the top, one dark spot will smudge your reputation and you will be down and disrespected. So start safeguarding your steps and make sure you don’t anguish your own name in the process of walking up the ladder!

Regards

Office Politics and Scandals!

Finally after I have settled down, I could find a little sufficient time for me to keep my blog page active. For the moment I could say that the ideas and blurt of the mind is flowing in a superior surge! Involve in a corporate world with so scores of people functioning, makes me learn about life and pattern of its current. Yes, I am involved in many scenarios of office politics and scandals.

When I was in my studentship life, all I know is I watch movies and soap-operas that show this similar motive circumstances in their production. But now, I know for real how it works exceptionally fine. This is what I rate the best first-hand-experience. What I do is I stop, look on how stuff works and I learn before I finally practice it. So let me explain the meaning of office affairs in my own words and my own understanding.

What do I mean by office politics?

This word itself explains that in an organization there is an affair that will guide us through out our service. To get good reviews you should be a hypocrite. I always wanted to be true to my way of working, but since I have been working, I learn that I should be hypocrite half of the time. Eulogize rules here! If you don’t know how to praise, then you stay at the bottom. Is this way is acceptable? For what I know, this no place for being a follower of ‘Dalai-Lama’; Truth only prevails. The formula to climb the corporate ladder is that you extol more on your supervisor on their toil. I observed, I learn and I utilize.

Now how about office scandals?

Alright, this is a word which is not only a phenomenon in corporate world but its becoming more communal. Dominos of life is not complete without scandals. And in this office set-up gossips will never dry out. I have observed a few on my own that it’s a routine fad. Explanation sought for but all in vain. Life scenario I went through, Ms. A goes out with Mr. B when Ms. A is married and the husband Mr. C is working in the same organization. Mr. B is a single man, and Mr. C is courting out with another girl. It’s complicated isn’t it? For all I know, this is only like 2% of the scandal that I am looking at on first hand. Why such an infidelity happens? Baffled as always!

As for now, I have learnt that nothing will stop from continuity. Scandals and office politics is inter-related element in part and parcel of career world. When it will stop? It’s still a big question mark! Deduction of the day, acclaim the person above you and you will secure hassle free career advancement, and ignore those scandals at workplace, instead enjoying listening and looking at one.

Regards

p/s: This is from my past working experience. Now, its all different!

Thanks for the Day!

I technically jumped off from my seat and I cry out loud after getting to see my long-lost-best-pal! It’s been years I haven spoke to her and today every puzzle came into a piece after meeting her online! Missing her much though, because she was my shoulder to cry on and she was the one I used to hang out with the most! Cherish all the moments I went through with her. Life moves very fast and now we are like waiting who going to get married first! Pal, all the luck, since I am sure you will be the first one! My super busy day, ended with two events which made my day to be perfect. First, it was dinner with my great buddies; Anil, Rajanen and Mekala, this is followed by a cam to cam chat with my best pal, ‘Aishah@ Ms. Vogue, who is in Kursk! Love you guys much!

p/s: Pal, I still have the Givenchy perfume you gave me! Parcel me more soon! *falls on my knees*

Hassle Free Life??

Is it possible? Or am I on tenterhooks for something unattainable? All this while, I have thought that life after studies would be great and hassle free, but I was wrong. It’s so hectic that I am missing my campus life so much. How can I be so immaturely thinking in that manner?

Life never gets paced down. Every each day, I never fail to realize that life is unpredictable and has loads of turmoil. But all this life stress and tumults can be outshined with the presence of great friends and good thought ahead. I am blessed with good friends to laugh about and share my feelings.

And this is the somber reason, that despite my chaotic days, I am still surviving with a smile. Thanks for my college mates who are in working with me, due to them I am still released from the overwrought and ‘headache’ of career call. I would like to take this opportunity to convey my deepest gratitude to The-Three-Lettered-Guy for giving me such a blissful mates at work; Mekala Devi Brakasam, Rajanen Jeya Balan and Kumaran Rachandra. Besides them, there are few others that cheer my day without fail. Thanks to all of them!

What is life without a bunch of friends’ right?

So start smiling and appreciate every single friend that we have. Sort of all the differences and don’t take them for granted. The more you ignore them for self indulgences, the worse your life would get. For all I know, you can’t endure this life alone. De-stress and be happy always!

Epilogue of Friendship

It has been my way of writing entries the way I think and what I feel about life, and here we go again; something regarding life and how it changed in a matter of years. Well life reallocation as I always talk, is something that still makes me pin-drop silent every time I think about it. It feels like just yesterday I came out of my secondary school that now; I am merely an engineer that walks in to work place to do my exertion.

Well life has really changed from day one. If I re-walk the life I went through, it is full with loads of confrontation which is still fresh in my memory. I rejoice those happy moments and I make the bad one to be my guru in learning about life.

Apparently, I was engrossed to write this entry while I was taking my dinner with my group of friends. The way we are and the matter we spoke every added year is different and unique in its own way. Let me give a real life scenario I went through so far.

Scenario 1

This I reminisce back into year 1996, when I was in my standard 4. I still remember the group of friends I was sitting and talking. It was Zaki, Hafiz Azmi, Chandru, Gobinath, Sarah Syahida, Muna Farhana and Nanda Kumari, the people that I hang out with the most. The topic we usually discuss is about cartoons, games that we need to start playing and a little bit of school related matters. And it’s always been some story that is more fun and less serious.

Scenario 2

Walking down year 2002, and this is back in my secondary years. I was in form 4. The group of friends that I hang out would be good friends. Shuhadah Basaharuddin, Norhaniza Shukor, Siti Sarah, Rajiv Pushpanathan, Janager, Thina, Ng Kheng Aik, Ooi Chyn Suang and few others. Content of our speech would be study-related material and also a little bit of gossip and normal life talk.

Scenario 3

Coming to recent year of 2007 and this is during my college life. Group of friends that I always hang out with Harnesh Gill, Rajpal Sandhu, Harish Hariraj, Rajanen Jeya Balan and the modus of our speech will be regarding lectures, test, gossips, life and obscenity! Content of our speech, is more serious and less fun.

Scenario 4

Recent days and this is closely related to our career life. Friends that I hang out with are those who are very close with me since college days; Nirmala Devi, Harnesh Gill, Rajpal Sandhu, Harish Hariraj, Mekala Devi, Rajanen Jeya Balan and Uthayashankar. Pretty easy as it is, what we talk is mainly related to work, politics and upbringing of our career and life. And of course the general topics as well. A well balanced conversation with a combination of seriousness, fun and obscenity will always be practiced each time we meet.

Can you see the clear cut of the topic we talk as our age grows? Maturity level increases and the content of our verbal communication get more enhanced. It doesn’t mean that those years of us ‘wasted’ on talking unnecessarily is not needed, indeed it’s vital to let our mentality to adapt and nurtures better day by day. Life reallocation takes place everyday with much perseverance. Let it happen and adapt to it sooner than normal and everything that occurs will be smooth sailing ahead.

Life never stops from running in a loop. And each day is new playground for us to discover and learn. Indeed life is the greatest guru for every each of us, so never stop living it to the fullest cause you never wanted to stumble one day and feels that you have missed some portion of life. Be yourself and enjoy every inch of life!

P/s: For those names that I din mention in this entry, you are not forgotten! Love you all buddies!

Divulge of the Mind!

I am taken aback every time I come across people who take things for granted and do things that can hurt others. Baffling to my mind, it’s so easy for people to forego and foreseen those good deed one has offered to him/her, and just ignore the person totally. No courtesy even to be there when they needed the assistance. Life is in such, that people nowadays are selfish and also ignorant.

There were few incidents that really budge up my nerve and make me reflect and gaze on how people can be egocentric. I have learnt the new panorama of life where self-centered style of life is vital. But this doesn’t mean that we should be ignorant towards what other would feel. After all the assistance has been rallied round, one just can miss out on the person, just like that?

I grew up in a very family oriented manner and also very co-related community, that this all seems to be something very abnormal. Idiosyncrasy is what I can categorize those people who seem to be thinking only on their well-being and disregarding those who were there for them when there was no one around. Life itself has been my greatest guru, and I am thanking GOD every second of the day, that he bestowed me a great family and simply-amazing friends; not forgetting my great life that I am enduring day by day.

Time will come for those who turn their back to their true friends and overlook them. Because, even when you think no one notices you, that Three-Lettered-Guy is always governing your each step! He who moulds you will know what you deserve and when you deserve it! Rules end out!

Sense of Disturbance

Have you felt that life in such a way, that everything around is interrelated? Yes, its co-dependent and all the happenings have its own core of the way it occurs. I woke up today morning from my dream, calling my mum while I was trying to beat the so-called thief that wanted to broke into my house. Funny as it is, but this made me wonder, why did I dream on this particular thing?

Right after I realize it was a morning reverie, I made few calls, particularly my sisters and also my mother. But thank God everything is fine. Why there were such an insecure feeling that this delusion of mine is going to happen or happening in real? Some things in life are hard to explain, so we are left unanswered and it’s better if we don’t take a serious consideration on the phenomenon.

But there are acquaintances of me having the Deja-vu feelings. We know that we have been to that particular place in our unconscious mind. Is there a proper explanation for this? Vaguely I would say that, everything in this world and universe is brought together with energy of unexplained mystery, called the Aura! We get what we feel and think. And this is the base and foundation for Law of Attraction. This is some sort of baffling anonymity. Collision between science and fiction is aggravated each time this ideology is been discussed. Where the truth is placed upon? I befuddled always!

As long as I am here, being a very strong follower of Hinduism nothing is reckonable. I believe in the teaching of, if we think good, we will get good outputs. Practicing this believe stalwartly, I think, good thoughts bring good yield. Be positive with whatever happens in life, because when there is instance of negative occurrences, God has planned a constructive harvest in the future. Life is short, so live life to the fullest.

Best Regards

Not too Young Anymore!

The dominos of life is yet been discovered a little by little. And here I am sitting in my office going on standby shift alone on a shutdown day at SONY. And looks like the time is not doing justice for me, it seems to be ticking pass tardily. As I am sitting here, myriad of learning and teaching of life comes into my mind. I vividly can hear all the advice that I heard and read before. Life has really budged up its pace, that human constantly having breathless run to catch up with it. Scary as it is, but this is the scenario that we ALL are going through day in and day out.

Advices that keep on taunting me since I was small started pouring into my mind. The data (advices and teachings) recorded in my mind is been refreshed again and all the puzzles of advices taken in, and is coming into one piece.

I still remember my Uncle, Mr. Sibepragasam, gave a useful advice which I think suits the life shifts always. He asked me a rhetorical question which is an advice by itself. He uttered to me on a fine evening when I was 9 years old.

“Sanjay, why are you crawling when everyone else is running?”

Time doesn’t wait for us at any point of life. So why are we still sitting and enjoying it going away from us? Time to tie up the shoe-lace and start running after it! This is indeed an emblematic question which still goads me all the time.

Another person who I always respect for the advices given is my beloved eldest sis, Sharma George Daniel. She gives me loads of advices throughout the period of me growing up. The man that she sees now, is the output of the mould that she created carefully. She told me a few advices which ring an alarm till this very moment.

“Before you start changing the environment you are, why you don’t change the person that you see in the mirror?”
-Given through my 23rd birthday card.
&
“Enjoy your adolescence stage appropriately, because the freedom wings and the key are given to you with altered responsibilities.”
-Given verbally on my 21st birthday

This are the main three, inspiring words of wisdom which till now is been mocking me thoroughly throughout this years of my life. I will never forget these advices, besides the others that I am still holding at. Thanks for those wonderful souls, where because of them, I am here as someone in this society! Love you all much!

Regards

From me with Love!

Life shifts, is what I am going through now. A reality check was done, and I found myself constantly in a shock of life travel. Been already months I ended my student’s phase, now I am a working man. Surprising as it is, I have responsibilities waiting ahead of me without me realizing it.

As I walk through this working world, I realize how different a student’s life would be. All this while, when I was back in my campus, I used to lament over the assignments, test, lectures and tutorials, but now, its all left in the memory. A memory which I will always cherish and rejoice!

Advice: Enjoy your studentship life before you start stepping into the career world. I am missing those days, when I used to walk around finding for lecturers, assignments and tutorial questions from friends to be copied and working extra time to meet the deadlines. Those were the days, when I think back now, make me laugh and sadden at times!

Life isn’t getting any easier for me. Work loads is piling up, and mere rest is been taken. Constantly getting tired, and apparently I know I need to change my Circadian Rhythm. During this period of life shifts, I have been very absent-minded guy, where most of my friends think that I am ignoring them. Opportunity taken now, to seek for forgiveness cause I never did this on purpose. At times I am in a situation where I can’t be justifying further for the blames and raging anger of my friends. I am sorry once again for being so absent-minded and ignorant.

I don’t blame life shifts; it’s just me who finds it hard to cope up with the bulk-up responsibilities and workloads. I would definitely bounce back, and I keeping my fingers crossed for it to happen sooner than I expect. Thanks for those who been my backbone in this process of reality check and life shifts. Everyone goes through this process and now it is my turn. God’s grace and the faith on Him I am holding to every each day!

God blesses everyone at any point of time!

Regards

Random Check on Reality!

Blogging from my desk at Sony makes me wonder again and again, how life shifts so fast that you find it’s unbelievable on what you are going through in life. It feels like just yesterday I step out of my secondary school life to campus life. But in a brisk of time, campus life ended and I have been working for the past 5 months.

The pace of life never waits for us; apparently it gets faster than normal that it makes us choke for breath. Guess that, this is life and it doesn’t really show mercy on those who is not making an effort to keep track with it. I recall my friend quoted about life in his facebook status, enjoy life before it gets jealous of us. So immature it may sound, but trust me or not, it sure rings and alarm!

Stop lamenting about life, and start enjoying every bit of it. Causes don’t walk while everyone else is running. Remember, time is always ticking away, and it doesn’t wait for us at all.

Regards.

p/s: Rajanen, thanks for the quote which made me write this entry!

Eminence of Me!

What shall I say? It’s past my bed time, and I am still baffled to what is really happening to me?! An experience I would say, one-of-a-kind! I feel so exploited! For someone else mere flamboyant time, I became the scapegoat. I wish I am not being taken for granted, since at times I feel so! Subjugated and I feel so demoralized. The limit is bridged and rage is provoked. Let me sit, and wait for the moments to tick pass, and time shall arrive when I can finally pint-point and say my repute. Count on me, I won’t be the same.

Got Cheated??

A glance of this makes you think it’s Maggi Chilli Sauce, but to my surprise, the other day when I was dining in one of the mamak’s in USJ I got shocked cause it wasn’t the same brand as I perceived earlier. It was Mastika Chilli Sauce. Damn, the packing was almost the same! Now this is what we call ‘Deceiving!’

Lost and Frown!

As the moments ticked pass, I am still feeling I am lost in my own time and space. I am frown with what I feel as my comfort zone. I am not sure whether the feeling is right, but I am undergoing a roller coaster of feelings. Sometimes happy, sometimes sad, and often lost in my own world. But why I am the one who has to undergo this confusing situation. I wonder. There is always an answer of all happenings, but what I feel now is that, the answers is miles away and I am left stranded without a decent answer.

Confuse is not the state I am now, apparently I am lost. Lost in my own thought. Lost in my own move. I am trapped within me and my limits. All I need is an answer. This is a phase I constantly get trapped in. I maybe surrounded with pool of people, but I seems to be in an isolated island with no one around. What is actually missing? What is actually happening? Why I am the one who feels it this way?

Prayers is bridged. No more jeopardizing my time. I have to step up, but I will delay! Soon will get my answer and I will be cleared. Strength is what I need and I will sought it out!

Finally!!

After turning down some job offers I had earlier from few companies due to some reason, I finally made it into SONY!! I technically jumped and shouted overjoyed after knowing that I made into SONY! Although I had great time lecturing at Meg@tech College, yet I opt of not letting my degree to go waste. So long for now, I am signing off happily for the job I bagged. Thanks for the wonderful time buddies a.k.a students of mine in Meg@tech. Will surely miss you all!

Sorry, I am a FAILURE this time!

I know it sounds irony, coming back after such a long time just to say i am a failure. Yeah, i feel it so much now that i cant say anything that i remain silent for a long time. I stumbled, but i can't justify. I know its my fault, i failed terribly. No words can undo the done, and no feelings as shattered as it is now.

No point me saying anything, but this is the biggest failure i felt so much. I may sound corky, but deep down inside the tears can't stop. All i can say i will make sure i would never ever repeat it back, and i hope i am not a stranger for what has taken place. I am sorry from deep down inside. No way this going to repeat.

SORRY!

The Ways of Wisdom, #2

We must be willing to let go of the life we planned so as to have the life that is waiting for us.

- E. M. Forester

A Poem to Ponder!

The poem every Indian Man should read!

Kudos to you 'Unknown Poet', it rings an alarm!:P

The Ways of Wisdom, #1

I have found a kind of serenity, it seemed no longer important whether everyone loved me or not - more important now was for me to love them. Feeling that way turns your whole life around; living becomes the act of giving.

- BEVERLY HILLS, B.1929

Gateway of Myriad!

Probably you must be wondering what on earth I am blabbering about, but true enough I have identify the supremacy of one of our vital appendage on our body, in giving us an epigrammatic walk to our inner feelings. Yes, the eyes, the one and only gateway to our soul and inner monologues! Why eyes? Puzzled still? Now let give you a vivid picture of what I think as the ‘Ultimate Gateway to our Soul’; the eyes!

I have seen in many cases, where people avoid eye contact when they are making statements, for matter of sake, any kind of proclamations. Is it a way to escape from mendacious statements made? The truth is, eyes can’t be lying, and the untruthfulness of each remark made can be concluded by giving such a strong eye contact. According to a friend of mine, there is a simple method of knowing whether the person is making a false statement of trying to succumb you into a forgery statement made. He said when the person looks more to your left when he is in conversation with you, that gives a probability of 80% the comment is bogus! How far is the truth? Further investigation needed! Why don’t you try it out with a friend of yours!

So do eyes really hypnotises?

Apparently, I should agree on the statement above because in many occurrence, eyes can be very much intimidating. With oodles of impression can be made, this organ of ours considered to be ‘deadly’ as well. In fact, if you have seen the Indian Classical Dance, The Barathanatyam, there are plenty eye-expressions which can materialised each and every emotions, right from being happy, sad, angry, lustful and also even being suspicious. It’s indeed a vital ‘weapon’ a person need. And giving such eye contacts with expressions, the partial message needed to be transmitted would be understood by the other end who is receiving it. Start understanding the ‘messages’ from the eyes before you could read the body language!=)

Well for a start, look at your colleague’s eyes when they are in different moods. You could definitely see the deviation of the cornea-popping to the iris squinting vary proportionally to the feelings that they are in. Without a doubt, I strongly believe that the eyes are the first step to known the inner feelings. Beware of eyes!

The Cautious Ship!

A handsome and intelligent cameo meets appealing yet witty lass, and love sparks between them! They have had the most lasting relationship, and manage to get through every thick and thin of existence. And at the end they live happily ever after.

Wait! Why on earth this only happens in movies and foretold chronicles? Is there really a relationship as this good? Think twice!

I wish every relationship in this world ends with a wide smile and also a happy ending. But it’s hard to endure this sort of bond. Regardless of whatsoever affiliation you are committing to; from spouses, friends and any other rapport exist there will be much problems faced. It needs an extra caution to be taken in consideration to maintain a long lasting empathy.

Why it’s so difficult to sustain a good relationship?

Pretty much assumed earlier there will be myriads of factors involved in a bad-reputed-bond. For example, one may take relationship for granted; A friend who ignores their acquaintance just for other mere things, only to realise that they were busy collecting stones when they have a gem with them. I often come across some acquaintance that easily falls under the tapestry of this scenario. Probably, it’s time for reshuffling and re-evaluating which friend is indeed needed in life.

All this year I have learnt that relationship is almost similar to the ‘Touch N Go’ system. Those who appreciate you for who you are will stick with you longer than the ones that only take you for a ride. Why still people do fall for this so-called ensnare? Mind boggling!

It takes loads of understanding, fair amount of truthfulness, and a little fun, not forgetting also a dash of intuition for one to identify which relationship will be lasting and which is a one-stop-go-link. Don't get vignette with all those myopic ‘promises’ of the untruth. So let’s start appreciating those who really will be with you through the years and start maintaining a distance for those who you think not worth to be kept in the circle of trust and relationship. Start now before it too late!

As for me, it took lots of wrong turning before actually I am right on track. I had tidal wave hitting on and on, but I am certainly happy with those I have around me now! Thanking always the three-lettered-guy for all the guidance and giving me such wonderful acquaintances to escort me throughout my life.

Male Domination, Finally!

Break from studies is good, but when you have such a long gap, it eventually becomes indistinguishable and lame. As for me, after being such a couch potato, I relented to my sister’s persuasion and end up following her for shopping at the so-called urbanised mall in Sungai Petani; The Village Mall. Frankly, I think this is almost the counterpart of Bangsar Village to smaller scale. At least it has Starbucks in it! *that’s something!*

So while I was walking around this mall, I was quickly fasten to a scenario which I rarely see and I was so fascinated to relate myself to the scene. I, being the friendly guy as always I manage to get the person talking and I found out some interesting stuff about the person I am going to introduce next! So I proudly introduce to you, Mr. Arif, the entreprenuer at the mall; down-to-earth, unique and speaks very good english!=)

Yeah he draws mehendi. And it’s an art piece that I saw drawn with his bare hand and with such a clear idea from his mind! Salute you Mr.Arif. It’s hard to see a guy dominating in this field and I think he is very good at it. So anyone who wanted this person to lay his art piece on your hand for your big day, then I can fix you up with this talented person! Gosh, Mr.Arif will be thinking I am doing some sort of marketing for him.

The truely talented guy, kudos to you bro!

Despite being interfered constantly by onslaught questions from me, he indeed never let his concentration fade away and managed to put up a good art work at last!

His art piece! Awesome!!

Disgusting aint it??

Gross?? Can’t help much but this is the scenario in one of the famous bakery back in Kedah, day in and day out. The shop-helper didn’t even bother to make a point of keeping these flies away till I summoned her to do so! Please people; check thoroughly the environment before you really wanted to purchase anything at any point of time. As for me, I have banned the purchasing in that bakery totally!

Red Handed Bro, Red Handed!!

Talking about weird collection that I have made previously, there is someone I would to introduce to you all. He is also weird but only on his own vanity. I finally broke into the pride and made it public! Introducing now is Harnesh’s collection of clothing labels. He goes around knocking me back into organizing; perhaps I need to teach him how to organize those labels which hangs on his cupboard door. Bro, you are caught red handed! *Feeling proud*

Regards.

LEWD as it is!!

Have some respect for holy places please!

I was dazed looking at this picture! Such an obscene printed t-shirt for prayers at mosque! Doesn’t he know the restraints of attire you should be wearing to holy places? I would strictly band him from coming in again! Please, it’s okay for you to have such a printed tee but make sure you know the appropriate place to wear it. He needs some psychoanalysis. Anyone care to give him one??

Junk or Memories??

Memories never fade away. That’s for sure, but when memories were held with some objects together with it, it’s hard to decide whether to let go the entity or the memory. Well the entity gives us a walk down memory lane when we gawk at it, but yet this object is not a sight for sore eyes. You may think what crap I am talking about, but this was what I had to endure when I finally need to chose whether it’s the memory or the entity.

When I meant entity, it’s all those crappy things with such a big sentimental value, so-called. Yeah after some knock on my head to step back to reality by Harnesh, I am finally letting go those junks in my room. Yeah, don’t get shock, I feel so weird when I look at those things I kept as my so-called sentimental-valued-stuff! So presenting to you the 'Weird of the Weirdest', starring Sanjay the Geek!

Broken table lamp, which I used since I was 12! My first ever table lamp!

Some-out-of-fashion belt which was with me since I was like 9! Ok I know it gets weird from one picture to the other!

The worst of all, ninja-head-banner I used for my award ceremony for my SPM result, pink brush which I never once used it out of my room, a pink paper bag which I have all those reload cards I used in first semester of my foundation years and the best of all...drum roll....my first ever toothbrush I used in UNITEN! Weirdo!!!

I had bid 'them' all farewells, and leaving a life of not being a geek. Thanks Harnesh for showing me how geek I was! Those things are now R.I.P but the memories of me 'throwing' it away will remain forever! Good laughing stock indeed!

Really??

Facebooking have been a vital activity for everyone nowadays, and I am not left out in doing the same as other do! And lately, the quizzes over the facebook has been provoking and at the same time interesting. Due to the, monotony scenario I am enduring currently, I relented to the aggravating yet attractive quiz of all, and here is the result!

Can you believe it?? I know women 100%!! That's outrageous! Gosh, I am still shocked!

p/s: I am just waiting what Harnesh, my best buddy have to say about this! A message for him, I am better in ladies than you do! And Theiv bro, want to have some extra tutoring session from me??:P

Collection or Nonsense??

Have you done anything that you classified as hobby which at the end turns out to be something vain?? My answer would be a BIG yes!! I have had an obsession once over collecting few items which I think I can classify as futile now! I have been collecting Clorets Mints’ boxes when I was 18, the Correction-Tape when I was 17 and some weird-taste mint which eventually the box has zodiac sign, when I was 16. Not forgetting, halls wrappers when i was 15! When I gaze back what I did, I feel absolute freak! Solitary moments of me lead to unfavorable collection. But I am proud that I did make a point to collect! * At least I act as if I do*

And latest collection item of mine which I started like few weeks back is collecting 50 cent coins, and I find that my dad is helping me out with the collection! And this time, the collection benefits me!

All this makes me wonder, am I really that weirdo?

p/s: The pictures is samples of it. Trust me i have loads of it in my house, and finally i am planning to throw it away!=p

Someday....

I am just yearning hard that someday I will get a chance to endure the situation below!

What I would do is; ask for a mere autograph and of course ask him some questions which I think explicit to be blogged about!=p

I wish and hope, someday i will get this chance!

p/s: If happens to be, the person in this picture reads this * which i dont think so* i am sorry for this. I just find it nice to be blogged about=) Dont mind me much! Chill and Cheers!

Intoxication Unlimited

Boredom. I am harebrained with my own situation. So with ample time on hand, I utilize it to go through my friendster profile, since I have not been updated on the profile. Facebook have been the latest obsession and I think, somehow rather, facebook is more intermediary level.*shrugs* Talking about browsing through my friends profile, I was attracted with one of my friends picture uploaded. At first it gave me a shock of my life, but after some serious consideration and thinking done, I think as the Adidas slogan goes, ‘Nothing is Impossible’! So let me introduce to you, the intoxication unlimited!

And the aftermath of an hour of unlimited stock of chill and cheer!

Damn! This people can drink! Kudos and hats off buddy! Nice pictures by the way!

Crossed the Finishing Line!

No string attached anymore! And I am freed with a scroll in my hand. A gap from lectures, test and assignments. The sum of five years in University Tenaga Nasional has been really a turbulent period. Going ups and downs of campus life. I should say, it wasn’t that pleasant all the way. I’d hit some tidal wave and finally I am save on smooth sailing!

Final semester was fun though. Juggling the last bits of the race with four electives and one project isn’t a good thing to do. I had to really occupy my time well. The subject that I love the most gave quite a bad headache at the end; Computer Aided Manufacturing. But the outcome of the project was indeed good. The use of CNC machine for cutting Jalur Gemilang! Proud Malaysian I am huh?

Besides all this, I am finally off from explaining everyone on the title of my degree’s final year project. Something that sounds Greek for myself at times; The Mechanical Properties of Titanium Carbide Doped with Yittria Tetragonal Zirconia Polyscrystal Ceramics. I know its loads of jargon, but can’t help it. And now I am proud to say that, I have obtained my first degree. Next stop, Master’s degree or second degree. Uncertain still! Loads of factors needed to be examined. Nevertheless, I am enjoying every single bit of life while I am on this break! Expect me to blog in more!

The Vogue of Mario!

I was at my friend’s place the other day doing my assignment. And after some heavy discussion we resorted to take five. So I eventually went to the other room to perturb my friend who was doing his FYP thesis. While I was doing this I started hearing some very familiar game music, and that’s when I realise that the craze never ends. The obsession of playing Mario game! Being in our twenties, its almost unbelievable that some of us do still crazily go over the board to play the famous game once upon a time, or perhaps till now its famous, The Mario. Kudos to you buddies! I still think Mario Rockz. The vogue never ends!

The printscreen image from my fren's pc!

The game that was, still and will be the craze of all!

Regards

A Dash of Piousness!

Kepercayaan Kepada Tuhan. This is one of the five ‘Rukun Negara’ that every Malaysian should know and practise. I was extravagantly in a mixture of feeling after I witnessed a scene at Tengku Kelana road in Klang. As I sashay through one of the busiest place of Klang, I was shocked and happy to see how pious people can be in performing their duty as a true Muslim. As I grew up looking at numerous Indian festivals and prayers that stretched along the roadside, I felt this was a rare sight and one-of-a-kind.

It was Friday, as I was riding my bike back from meeting a bunch of my friends; I saw this bunch of people sitting by the roadside. At first I thought it was a strike for some reason though, but actually it was in front of a small Masjid Jamek in Tengku Kelana. Due to the small place, it was almost impossible for this place to cram up all those beautiful souls to perform their prayers, so they made a point to ignore the heavy traffic and spread out the mat and was waiting for their mass prayers to take place exactly just inches away from moving vehicles. I salute this people who despite the heavy traffic and polluted environment, they yet do their task as a true Muslim by performing their prayers.

I couldn’t snap more pictures since I don’t want to create any unwanted scene. *actually I try to avoid any problems if there is any.* Truly, they are amazing people. I couldn’t believe till now on what I saw. I know from now onwards, notwithstanding whatever the condition going to be, I never ever going to stop myself from praying and anytime and anywhere I wanted. And for those Muslim friends of mine, take them as an example. Hats off Muslims at Tengku Kelana!

Regards

Wanna go for a drink??

Always think twice before you go for a drink! And guys, thanks god we are guys and we don't think much! Hats off for those who did this!=)

Funny yet True!